Ed Ruggero
An executive I know, mild-mannered and kind most of the time, admits to being infuriated by a colleague who talks incessantly at meetings, laughing at his own jokes, weighing in with his opinion on every comment, filling the room with hot air and dragging out already long meetings. My friend fantasizes about grabbing this fellow by the hair and banging his head on the table while chanting, “Just (BAM) stop (BAM) talking!”
Although many of us have no doubt indulged in similar fantasies, this kind of behavior might be, well, counterproductive for the team. Talking too much is fairly innocuous compared to some examples of bad manners in the workplace. Have you ever found yourself looking at someone and thinking, “Man, that’s something you should have learned about in kindergarten!”
The mature, adult way to address the slob in the next cubicle is to approach that person in private and, without judging his or her character, mention the effect that this particular behavior has on you. Then you might make a kind suggestion or polite request.
But few of us want to be the manners police, so we hope that some boss will step in and squash the bad behavior. It could happen. You might also get to watch the guy who just cut you off in traffic get pulled over by a cop a half-mile ahead. But don’t bank on it. ,

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